WHY MOST BOYS FEARS TO FACE THEIR FATHER?

We all love our parents, want to spend more time with them not only because they feed us, and make our wishes come true but the reason is their  love, sacrifices and selfless nature.
But when seen a lot of adults including me, I found that most boys are not so much connected with their fathers as they are with others. It doesn't means that they disrespect them but are unable share their true feelings with their parents specially fathers.

How boys behave in-front of their father?

Most of time they appeared like a confused person and does not express his true emotions in front of his father unless he need a certain help of his father. 
When his parents want to overcome this gap, asked him to join the break-fast with him, then most of the boys refuses and put a excuse that he want to finish his pending home-work.


Why they behave like this?

I think the reasons are that most of them knows that his father is a brilliant person and  an extraordinary man which can anytime shows him ( boy) his weakness, and you already know most of us don't like or just avoid talking about our weakness.

Another reason is very common most of us want to make our own path and thinks that he/any she is ready to face any situation on our own. Now this behavior of any child create a wall between him/her and parents. 


How to break this gap?/ solution:

Most of time our parents are not with us specially fathers, they(Here I am using plural tense because u "his" does not sounds great so to give proper respect ;I am using "they") can't give proper time to their children, because of  their jobs, business but it does not means that he loves money more than us but for providing us best life style than they got in their childhood.

THEIR SACRIFICES TO MAKE YOUR LIFE

 Some Suggestion for you and me which will fix our behavior with our father:

1. If you are seeing your parents to too insipid then you must you must try to make them happy by not by cracking some weird jokes but my performing well in your academic because every parents want that their child will be best in his academics.

2. Behave well in-front of them, help your father in work or at-least you can do your household work on your own( washing your clothes, washing your plates after eating, keeping your room clean.
3. Talk to your father about some current events around the globe ex: about FIFA world cup score, Olympic etc. Share your knowledge and express your views with him because it will help him to know more your interest, and in exchange you might know that your father hold more and better knowledge about the topic.

PRECIOUS TIME WITH FATHER.
4. Ask about past of your family, and you will realize the real struggle and love they holds for each other.


IN THE END I WANT TO SAY THAT YOU CAN NOT HIDE ANY SECRET FROM YOUR FATHER BECAUSE HE HAD ALSO GONE THREW THE SAME LIFE THAT YOU ARE GOING. NOW I WANT YOU TO SHARE YOUR VIEWS ON THE SAME IN COMMENT SECTION GIVEN BELOW.

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