Ignore your enemies to change your life.
Everybody want to be successful in their fields, but there
are times when we fails or we are a pinch away from getting success
You have problems, you are facing today that might be your
relationships with friends and family members, financial crises etc. And having
problems are common for everybody because without problems there is no
adventure in our life.
But there are times when your relatives, friends, and
specially your neighbor became your enemies, because they instead of helping
you they are judging and criticized you on your situations; and these are the
times when you feels alone,
To better understand here are some common situations:
1.
In a
student’s life these situation are very common because of your bookish type of
education system where each student is judged according to their academic
performance and their parents judge them on the basis of their performance in school. Some of their
classmates don’t want to be their friends because they are not much intelligent
as others.
2.
I had seen so many people when they are poor or
just have hand to mouth, they are just criticized by others saying “why are not
working for more hours”, ”why are you not trying for a better jobs” or “you are
responsible of these condition of your family”.
Sometimes these situations can be changed easily and other times you
can’t do anything to change them. Then how to change circumstances? How to live
happier in these circumstances.
Here I come up with some ways to ignore your enemy and change your life:
1.
Except your situation:
First thing to do is to accept that you are in this situation, and then you
can decide to work on it.
2.
Change your working style:
Changing your working style means
to change the pattern of your work by finding the area where you are lacking. For
example if you are a student and you are getting poor marks in your subjects,
then first thing you can do is special focus on the particular subject where
you find it difficult to understand.
3.
Taking negative comments as challenge:
There are always 2 types of comment by your sub-ordinates:
a.
From the Person who wants to condemn you, they
want you to feel lower and they think that you are nothing in life. You have to
totally ignore them to reach your goals.
b.
From the person who appreciate you for your work
and criticize you for your mistakes. There comment must become a challenge for
you.
4.
Be quit:
Sometimes being quit is the way than arguing with them, because it ensure
that you just ignoring that non-sense about you, and their discussion about you
is just a waste of time when it doesn’t affect you
.
.
5.
Don’t tell your goals until you must sure to
achieve it.
6.
Observe the love of your real friends and family
then you can overcome any circumstances.
These are only my views , i want you to share your view on the same in the comment section below so that we can further discuss our experiences.
These are only my views , i want you to share your view on the same in the comment section below so that we can further discuss our experiences.