Learning form experiences and mistakes.
Are you learning from your mistakes or just repeating them?
If you are learning from your mistakes then why are you at
same position as you are before. Today I am going to tell you how you can learn
from your experiences.
There are two types of experiences in life some are good
experiences reminding (or re-thinking) them will re-create a pleasure and joy
in your life. And it is necessary to remind these and I will later tell you why
to remind good experiences. But there are some bad experiences in your life
where we learn a lot from life and the element of life.
There are situation where we were not reacted and when we
think of that instance of life we start regretting yourself. Then we start asking a question to ourselves “why I
don’t say at that time” or “why I don’t react in that situation” and “which
thing stops me from speaking in that place”. Some other situations are:
a.
If I say this thing to that person, then my
situation are different.
b.
If I stop her/him then she/he will never go.
c.
If I study more then everybody will be happier.
d.
If I don’t listen to them, then my life will be
heaven.
Listen my friends you have done that all because
its your life you can mold it as you like. And sometimes we all got stuck in
situations we don’t want. At that we have to learn from our experiences and
mistakes.
Here I came up with some steps to learn from :
- Learning from others mistake:
You can easily find others mistakes in
their life and if you are enough smarter (and I believe you are), then you can
learn from them. For example if you want to setup a business in the field of
shoes designing , you have seen the problems others are facing in that field then
you can find a solution to that problem and work on it.
- Writing your mistakes if you can take it in a positive way and work and them.
- A fight between body and spirit:
- It is good if you know your mistakes, don’t work on it then you will definitely regret on yourself in future. There are times when we have t to fight in spirit to learn from our mistakes, this fight goes in your mind where you know results from both sides of life. At that times if you have to win that battle you have to feed less to your body and let your spirit win.